Seit dem 1.September 2020 sind sexuelle Dienstleistungen mit Geschlechtsverkehr in Berlin wieder zulässig. Der Senat beschloss die Aufhebung des Tätigkeitsverbotes für sexuelle Dienstleistungen mit Körperkontakt in der Sitzung vom 4. August 2020. Further information
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BYE BYE, CLICHé! SWINGER CLUBS IN BERLIN
More and more young swingers looking for new erotic kicks discover the advantages of swinger clubs in Berlin.
Berlin - Many people enjoy to broaden their sexual horizons. In search of new sexual kicks, many of them find theirsevles inside a swinger club. But often newbies don't really know what's going on in such clubs. For example do those locations nowadays not get dominated by elder couples trying to spice up their sex lives with lacque and leather. More and more young, open-minded couples find their ways into the swinger clubs in search of nex sexual experiences. At least in Berlin. You can forget about alod clichés. But how does a night at a swinger club proceed? What are the typical features? What's a good swinger club? What are the dos and don'ts? And what establishment is perfect for a first swinger club-experience? Swinger clubs are part of the redlight milieu. It's a place where sexually open-minded women, men and couples - swingers - meet to act out their sexual fantasies together. The sex practices are basically not different to the actions you perform at home in your bedroom. But in swinger clubs you can enjoy partner-swapping, voyeurism, exhibitionism and groupsex. Inside a swinger club, sex is usually not connected with additional costs, no matter if it's a frivolous threesome, a steaming sex orgy or "just" sex between two couples. Swingers don't have financial interest - that's what makes the difference between a swinger club and nudist / sauna clubs.
What swinger clubs score with? A safe room, a nice ambience, lots of space.
Inside a swinger club people can find exactly that safe room and the nice ambience they need to realize their ideas of tickling erotic and hot partner-swapping. A nice ambience, mirrors and accessoires like a love swing help pushing one's fantasy even more. But the most important part of each swinger club is the so-called play area. It's basically a giant bed or a giant padded area where the couples can hump. Because of the giant measurements it's possible for more couples at the same time to get it on. The flying change can happen easily and there's lots of space for hot groupsex. The heart of each swinger club is the bar. Here is where meet, chat, drink and get in contact. From there you can easily move to the play area or the wellness area, if you like. What other features swinger clubs offer besides their play areas, depends on the preconditions of the property and the club's conception. Here you might find saunas and fun showers, there you might find a so-called darkroom. The next club may have a "glory hole", who knows? And the next after next may offer a special massage room or a bistro to its guests. Some clubs offer you smalls snacks like chips or pretzel sticks, while other may have their own cook who conjures a buffet with specialties. Often you can also find separate rooms for couples only. Most clubs have a smoking lounge or smoking room, so that nobody has to renounce his right for nicotine. In some clubs it's still allowed to smoke at the bar. Many Berlin swinger clubs upgrade with wellness, spa or massage offers. And there are also features available for S&M performers or bondage lovers. Because most of the capital's addresses com with gyn chair, St. Andrew's cross, cages or other BDSM equipment. Something else? Yes: one very important thing is discretion!
Kevin alone at the swinger club
Before visiting a swinger club you should inform yourself about the night's motto. In Berlin the swinger clubs keep theirselves interesting for the guests by setting up differend motto nights/days. Today it might be massages, wellness of gangbang, tomorrow it might be an exciting motto party. Motto parties usually com with special dresscodes. In general it is neccessary got come with the right clothing. Street wear is definitely not welcome. Your jeans have to stay inside the locker. Couples and women usually have no problem to pass the doorman, but single man might fail because of the proportion, even if their suited nicely. If the club's "bouncer" allows you to enter, you usually pay the entrance fee and get a key for a locker. Ladies should show up in sexy lingerie or in lacque & leather after leaving the locker room, men should at least wear nice, neat - but better sexy - underwear. Every once in a while you have to wear evening wear. Concerning the dresscode you should always check the club's website in advance. Fact is: Towels and complete nudity are not very welcome. A few swinger clubs do always stand on neat evening wear, like the Schloss Milkersdorf, for example. In frivolous bars you don't undress immediately, but only when you're about to hump. The first station to visit after leaving the locker room is usually the bar. There you can also give your locker key to the bar lady. Usually it takes a little time until the guests get intimate with each other. Due to the fact that there are not only oldschoolers, but more and more newbies who want to try-out swinging and have to orientate and acclimate first. In some clubs it's usual that the guests start the evening by a common dinner and a few drinks. You chat, get in contact with each other, maybe dance a little. Depending on the process, mood and sympathy, the activities will later be moved onto the play areas. What makes a swinger club a good swinger club is hard to tell. Every swinger lady, swinger man, swinger club has other preferences. But all swingers like a clean, comfortable and modern interior, enjoy a mixed-aged, neat and nice crowd combined with an all-inclusive package. In the best case you don't have to open your wallet again after paying the entrance fee. A few clubs nowadays emphasize on the combination of swinging and wellness. In that case one should check what's offered. Is there a sauna and/or a steam bath with the usual rituals? Are massages being offered? Is there a Jacuzzi or a swimming built in? Very important for a positive feedback is the variation of the offered programs. Motto nights are always top. The interior is also important. Swingers enjoy the option of using features like a love swing, a mirror above the play area or a gynaecologist chair.
The best swinger club? A matter of taste!
Two of Berlin's best swinger clubs are definitely the nightclub Insomnia in Tempelhof and the Avarus in Berlin-Mitte. Both swinger clubs offer completely different conceptions. While the Insomnia accentuates the partner-swapping game with bumping electronic dance beats, the Avarus is more relaxed, but always sophisticated. Both locations offer versatile programs and new mottos to their guests. You get what you pay for... so what do swingers have to invest for a night of enjoyment? Men do always have to pay more than women. Couples usually pay between 20 and 120 Euros at the entrance, men between 60 and 160. Women often don't have to pay any entrance fee at all. Because of the different price levels, some men take solo ladies with them to the club to pay the couple fee. Problem is that those women often do not activel participate in the action. The club staff doesn't like to see that, so it can happen that if the woman leaves the party early, her male companion has to leave with her. But the price differences do make sense: The balance between men and women has to be right. By paying more, the single men virtually become sponsors for couples and single ladies who therefore rather come to the club. In connection to this fact we can recommend for oyu to get yourself a BERLINintim Club card. With that card you can save up to 10 Euro on the entrance fee in many of the capital's swinger clubs.
The swinger at the club - how does he behave?
The most important motto at a swinger club is: If you want to fuck, you have to be gentle and take care of your body hygiene. If you're unkempt or unfriendly, you won't enjoy your club visit. But don't get us wrong: There's no guarantee to have sex, just because you're neat and gentle. "No" does mean "No". Always. If you don't play by these rules, you oughta leave. If the lady is present with her partner, you also need his "OK" to "play" with her. Sex without a condom does not happen inside a swinger club. And you should always hold on to your gentle behavior, even when you're on the play area. Nobody likes to get a finger forced into her/his orifices without being asked. And one thing nobody likes is when men shoot their load somewhere without asking. Sex at the bar is not allowed, only on the play areas. Talking about play areas: Often they're covered with high-quality fabric. That's why ladies are not allowed to get onto the play areas with heels. Usually you put special square-shaped sheet underneath y'all, because the next partner-swappers would definitely like to lie upon a clean play area. Most swinger clubs come with showers. Before getting in touch with other guests, you should refresh your body hygiene. Inside every room and besides every play area you find litter boxes for condoms and tissues. Condoms are available for free in every swinger club. Safer sex is one of the most important things for all swingers. And one other rule is: What happens inside the swinger club, stays inside the swinger club.
Everybody swings together
Swingers come from all social stratums. There's no upper age limit. In swinger clubs you can meet people aged 18+ who want to act out their sexual fantasies. Single ladies looking for anonymous, uncomplicated sex and men wanting sexual adventures with women. Couples looking for new sexual impulses without endangering their relationship. The usual age inside Berlin swinger clubs lies between 30 and 45 years. But swinging is as old as mankind, no doubt. Everybody's heard or read about the orgies in ancient Rome, or about the concubines of the Baroque times. Swingers in the 19th century usually came from the aristocracy. On the internet you find a report on a scandal at Jagdschloss Grunewald where the emperor's sister allegedly had organized a sex orgy. But it took until the middle of the 20th century for swinging to turn into an established and popular trend in the society. And that happened in America. From there it swashed over to other countries. Today partner-swapping is very popular in the Western world. In (West) Germany the swinging began in the late 1960's. Especially elder people, artists and actors enjoyed swinge clubs and swinger parties in those days. The oldest, still appearing swinger magazine is the "Happy Weekend". The first issue was published in 1972. In the DDR there was also a swinger scene. The swingers there got in contact with the help of magazines like "Das Magazin" or "Wochenpost". There they found texts of "tolerant couples" looking for "other couples with an interest in nudity and photography", for example. Especially in the 1980's you could find lots of want-ads like that. Because the society doesn't really accept the swinger scene that much, swinging usually happens in special locations - the swinger clubs. Here you get a good impression of the gap between societal norms and the swingers, enjoying and performing free love. Though the acceptance for swingers increases and moral standards tend to change, discretion is still very important. Swingers are always in private. There are couples that organize swinger parties at home and take money for it, but that's usually just to cover the costs. A few swinger clubs in Berlin hire ladies to heat-up the action on the play areas, while others basically renounce such things, to keep the private character. Swinging has nothing to do with prostitution. Contrary to a whore on the street, swinger ladies can decide for theirselves with whom they want to have sex.
Precious swinger advice
For the common swinger club visit, it es very important for couples, that the partners talk with each other before. Otherwise the first time can already be the last time, too. It's important to set up common rules, to talk about feelings, about what experiences have been made and are wished to be experienced. Should other men be allowed to join the sex, and who decides which guy gets invited? Are other people only allowed to watch? Or may they also touch? Or even fuck? The tolerance level varies. While some couples don't allow more than a kiss, others don't even have problems with real intercourse. But fact is: There's no place for jealousy inside a swinger club. The partners are supposed to stay together, but everyone should be allowed to have fun. Another very important fact is, that the exchange of conctact data does not happen. After having informed yourself about the first time at a swinger club, dressed up and took the hurdle bouncer, should move to the bar first. It's like a contact exchange for amateur swingers. There you get in contact. If the chemistry is rights, it's - in most cases - the lady inviting the man to the play area. Male swingers should definitely be choose the passive part. To pet her thigh a little and to wait what happens, is OK. But under no circumstances should he be instrusive. At swinger clubs with a sauna, swingers like to get in touch during a sauna session. The chocolate sauna at swinger club Avarus Berlin is perfect for some uncomplicated connection before sexual contact - there you can cover each other up with liquid chocolate. Sometimes swingers even make up a date before their common visit.